By Vonda Roebuck Ware, MD, FACOG

You are not wrong for you were taught by generations to be strong.
To endure and persevere, be strong and courageous, bear it and grin,
Cuz, it’s THE SKIN YOU’RE IN.

No one really sees you unless you stand out or speak up, 
But if it’s too tall or too loud, a label of “arrogant” or “angry” will be determined.
Cuz, it’s THE SKIN YOU’RE IN.

Work hard to be smart, play the part, and never give reason for a fight to start.
Seen, not heard, sounds absurd—but you better watch every single word … or you will become the villain,
Cuz, it’s THE SKIN YOU’RE IN.

It’s easy to believe “to whom much is given, much is required,” when you see the cost of being “boss” and how much is at stake in a system that works hard on your loss.
Act like you are grateful and humble in every win.
Cuz, it’s THE SKIN YOU’RE IN.

I serve in women’s health and love when women become their best version revealing a beauty within.
And I denounce any wrong, stand tall, shout loud, shine a bright light, use my words for justice and good, and through a system designed to see me lose, I win—you can blame all this and more on my melanin!
I am my ancestors’ wildest imagination. I will continue to serve and speak up for the disenfranchised and the marginalized.
Cuz, it’s THE SKIN I’M IN!

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Vonda Roebuck Ware, MD, FACOG, is a board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist with over 25 years of experience and an associate professor in the department of obstetrics and gynecology at Morehouse School of Medicine. She is a compassionate advocate for women’s rights. She is committed to offering comprehensive health care with prayers of equity for women of color and is passionate about serving as a role model for residents and medical students.

The 2024 theme for Black History Month is African Americans and the Arts. This year, we hope to give a platform to art made by Black members of the ACOG community. We’d also love to hear from ACOG members about works by African American artists that have inspired you or that have particular meaning in your life and career. Email [email protected] to share a story in the form of a written essay, visual art, or a video.